Why Are Men Afraid to Admit They Want Strap On Sex?

Strap On Sex- why are men afraid to admit they want it? For those of you reading this, let me start out by saying that I am a man, like you. I’m not a Mistress and I certainly do not claim to know what they think or feel or why they love to use strap ons, but they do!

You know that! If you have talked to even one Mistress, she has no doubt expressed a great desire to fuck you or someone else with a strap on. Most likely you, but being a man and feeling like you should NOT want to be fucked, you balked at the idea.

Does Thou Protest Too Much

At least outwardly you balked. You probably went on and on about how much you would NOT ever want to be fucked with anything, especially not something resembling a cock. Maybe you even did that thing we all resort to when our manhood is questioned (or we think it is being questioned) you started talking about pussy.

Telling her how incredibly hot she is and listing all the things you love about her breasts and her pussy, anything that makes it very obvious that you are interested only in women and would never, could never and have never considered being fucked. You are the man, you do the fucking.

If this was a Mistress though, she probably laughed at you. If she didn’t laugh, she walked away and just ignored the lengthy explanation you had for why you would never want to be fucked with a strap on dildo. All the while, murmuring something to you about protesting too much.

Which brings me to one of the reasons men don’t want to admit to wanting to be fucked with a strap on. Our manhood seems to be in question. Real men don’t think about their woman (or Mistress) strapping on a cock and fucking them. They certainly never fantasize about how she would make them bend over and beg for it or maybe even suck it first. And they really never ever consider laying on their back, legs over their shoulders being pounded by a strap on dildo attached to their gorgeous Mistress. That is what we think anyway. No matter what we’re told, men think that women are thinking they are less of a man if she is the one doing the fucking. We don’t know this for sure, in fast I have had women tell me that they are not thinking that at all, but it doesn’t matter. If we have decided that admitting we want to be fucked makes us less manly, you would be hard pressed to get us to say anything of the sort.

Strap On Sex: Admitting and Submitting

That is just one of the reasons of course, there are many. They are varied and I couldn’t possibly tell you all of them, since I am only one man. I can tell you that submitting that far, is one of the main reasons I have. That is the ultimate in submission.

Oh no, not the laying down and getting fucked, though that is pretty submissive, I mean the admitting that I want to lay down and get fucked. You see, once I tell her that, I have opened myself up to her knowing something about me that I definitely don’t want anyone to know. Something that she could easily use against me, if she chose.

Of course my Mistress doesn’t do those kinds of things, but that isn’t the point really. The point is that I would have said it. I would have put out into the universe my intention to get fucked with a strap on. Or worse yet, I would have said it to not the universe, but a woman who just happened to have one in her purse! Thus putting me in the position of putting up or shutting up. And since I would have already told her I wanted it, I wouldn’t really be able to take it back.

That isn’t the sort of thing you say on accident when you really mean something else. So, I would have admitted it, not only to her, but to myself. Submitted completely to the desires within me, the ones I have never told anyone. But I told her the other night and I am here telling you now. I want to be fucked with a strap on. I don’t like men, I’m not less of a man and I’m certainly not weak, but damn I wanted her to fuck me and just the other night, she did. I don’t regret a second of my admission.

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