When Pegging Is Humiliating

Pegging is humiliating with some BDSM/kink play scenes. Is strap on play always humiliating? And how is strap-on play humiliating?

Some adventurous couples may sprinkle in some humiliation to their strap on adventures. Spicing up their play with elements of dominance and submission and humiliation play.  What came first was the pegging or the humiliation. We will take a look at all this and more.

Humiliation And Pegging

Pegging and humiliation do not always go hand in hand. For some, it’s a natural and desired erotic experience they can have with their partner. They don’t have any hangups about their desires, they don’t fear rejection from their social circle if others found out.

With pegging, the humiliation revolves around the dreaded “What ifs” and what others might think of you. Does this mean you are gay? What if this means you are immoral? What does it mean about your masculine identity if you get pleasure from anal sex? Are you a Sissy?  For others, the humiliation isn’t about what others might say but is wrapped around their social conditioning to feel it’s taboo and wrong, and a “good guy” or a “good woman” wouldn’t engage in such debauchery.

The majority of the humiliation revolves around the messages being told to you. Since you, the male, is being penetrated, you’re in the submissive woman’s position. With this act, you are having your masculinity fucked out of you. Emasculating you. You are on your hands and knees or on your back with those pretty toes pointed to the ceiling. Not something a “MAN” should be doing.

It’s humiliating because you love it,  you’ve never felt pleasure like this before, and it makes you weak. You crave it. Humiliating because Mistress coerced you into it, seduced is a lovelier word for it, don’t you think so? Mistress seduced you into fucking her girl’s cock

What Came First The Pegging Or Humiliation

Most men who enjoy humiliation will eventually move towards pegging humiliation throughout their journey. The majority of humiliation pets seek out increasing levels of humiliation over time. So one who started off liking being giggled at as she coos, “Come on can’t you make it harder for me?”,  feeling that rush of hormones, the pressure to perform dances with the humiliation as it rings through your body, your loins, like a bolt of lightning. Then over time you became desensitized and needed more humiliation, or we should say novel and more intense humiliation. Until you arrive at what many consider one of the ultimate humiliations, being fucked like a Woman.

Considering these factors, it’s a good bet to say that humiliation came first.

There may be a few guys where pegging came first.

 Seduced into strap-on play, and it was all a good time. You were being a good partner and entertaining her pegging fantasy. You saw how excited and turned on she got just discussing the possibility of pegging, so you agreed. It was fun until she tossed in a bit of humiliation. Reminding you loudly and often how much you are enjoying her fucking, even using words like fuck toy, slut hole, how you are loving her lady dick, and more during her dirty discourse.

Making your head spin as she taunts and teases. You framed this play one way and here she is reframing in a light that bruises your ego. At this point you were already riding high on arousal and each word and thrust of her strap-on sent waves of pleasure, it was all so confusing and you realize her humbling words were actually hot. You blush hours, and days after the encounter, and your dick whispers to you for more. You realize you loved it all, the sensations, being at the bottom, and the rush of the humiliation.

Pegging Is Humiliating With Submissive Strap-on Play

Strap-on play with Mistress and her submissive is a common activity. Aside from the submissive position he is in while being penetrated, Mistress yields that traditional symbol of power, the phallus, which augments that power exchange. Often, a submissive sucking on or being fucked by Mistress’s strap-on has nothing to do with the submissive’s bi-curiosity or gay desires. It’s about the submissive, obeying and acquiescing to her desires. It is very humiliating for many when it wasn’t their idea for the activity. It’s about pushing boundaries, and loving where Mistress takes you. She often helps you learn about all the pleasures your body can give. For the submissive, it can be humiliating to be manipulated into naughty behavior and trepidation about how far he would go for Her Pleasure. 

Bi-Curious and Coerced-Bi Pegging Play

Certainly, those with unrealized desires for cock and pleasing cock are attracted to strap-on play. It’s a safe way to explore. It is absolutely true that practicing the behavior of sucking cock with Mistress’s strap-on is a fantastic way to move along that bisexual continuum and practice the behaviors you will eventually need when you do suck your cock. Often someone bi-curious

Coerced-bi is when Mistress wants you to perform the behavior of someone gay, or bi-curious it’s something the submissive hasn’t thought about and is on a soft boundary list. There are times when Mistress steps the submissive right into sucking her dildo and adding to the humiliation.

Pegging Is Humiliating When You Beg For It

Humiliating, humbling – however you’d like to phrase it. Imagine yourself right now, horny desperate, needy, and controlled when you are begging Mistress to be pegged.
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