What is Pegging?

by Ms. Brighton of www.straponfemdommes.com

Have you been scratching your head asking the question, what is pegging? So let’s just say you’ve been living under a rock and you have never heard the term “pegging” before. Since this is a site dedicated to strapon Femdommes and anal play, we’re going to explore what pegging is, why you might like it, and how to indulge!

For the uninformed, pegging is a sexual act where you penetrate a man anally with a strapon dildo. For a man who enjoys sex with women, and also anal sex, this can be pleasurable and a fun way to spice up your sex life!

For men who are submissive and enjoy penetrative sex, this is a way for men to submit to their women partners, or dominants. For men, anal sex can be enjoyable and contrary to popular belief, being a man and liking anal sex, does not make you gay.

Pegging Puts the Man in the Submissive Role

Pegging puts the man in the submissive role, and can be accompanied by any Femdom BDSM scene you can conjure up, but it does not have to be exclusively in a BDSM setting. You could just like being stimulated anally by a woman with a really nice strapon cock!

Regarding the aforementioned gay stigma, anal sex is not exclusive to gay men, and you should never feel like enjoying strapon pegging, means that you are in any way less of a man. Variations on that would be if you enjoy strapon femdom humiliation, and like being called gay for liking strapon dick up your ass.

If you have never tried pegging, it’s important to remember a few things before dashing off to get buttfucked. The first would be make sure you discuss your pegging fetish with your partner, or your strapon femdom, and make sure this is something both of you are into.

Second, if you have never used anything in your ass, you will want to test the waters of pegging and strapon play to find your comfort level. Start small. Don’t let huge strapon dildos intimidate you. Most of those are used in porn, by experienced individuals. You do not have to go out and get the biggest strapon dildo you can find.

What Size Strapon is Best?

Strapon dildos do vary in size, similar to how buttplugs vary in size. Some strapons have other features, such as vibration, rotation, similar to women’s vibrators. Finding the right strapon is just as important as finding the right strapon femdom. Safety and hygiene are also important.

Use proper lubricant, test for allergies to things such as latex, lube ingredients and also, please clean yourself properly before going on a pegging adventure. Showering and properly washing your buttcrack is advisable, you don’t want to smell bad if you’re about to be bent over, that would ruin the mood. You can also put condoms on dildos, as a safety and hygiene measure.

Just Relax and Let it Happen

Most importantly, relax. A pegging experience will be much more pleasurable if you’re not clenched and tense. Try showering together, maybe a little foreplay beforehand if you are pegging with a partner. Fingering your anus is a great way to warm up your butthole before the big event, obviously with lube.

Once your ready for a good pegging, and you’ve lost your anal virginity, you can try variations that will feel good for both of you. Have your partner give you a handjob while she’s pumping away at your pucker, or try getting on top and straddling her dildo.

Anal orgasms are also part of a pegging experience, if you have anal training and can achieve orgasm from anal stimulation. This is where having a strapon femdom comes into play. Your pegging Mistress can work with you, to find your gspot and achieve analgasms.

A strapon femdom can also instruct you in orgasming strictly from anal stimulation, say, if you are in chastity, or she has denied you any other form of orgasm. How you approach pegging, and whether you choose to try strapon play with a partner, or an experienced strapon femdom, is completely up to you. Keep and open mind, and let a dominant woman open up your ass.