The Perfect Strap-on Femdom

You might think this is an easy matter. Oh, yes, you are not someone with a strap-on fetish, so you are certain one is the same as another and how hard could it possibly be to find the perfect strap-on Femdom. I promise you that you are terribly wrong. In fact, finding the perfect woman to take you with a strap-on requires much trial and error, or a lot of research. I recommend the research, as in a situation such as this, trial and error can be painful.

So, now that you can maybe see why it is important to choose the perfect Mistress to take you with a strap-on, I am going to tell you some ways to go about finding the one. There are things you need to think about, decide about yourself and what you really need and want in a session with a femdom’s strap-on.

Tell Me How You Like It

First things first, what type of strap-on Femdom are you looking for? Might seem like an obvious question, you want one to control you. But there is a lot more to it than that and you do not want to wait to discover that when you are naked in a room with a sexy woman and a strap-on. There are varying degrees of control and many ways to approach it. If you approach a Femdom and just say that you want to be controlled in a strap-on Femdom session, you might just get more than you bargained for. So, stop and think for a moment, how do you want this experience to go. There are any number of ways, as no two mistresses are exactly the same, but for the most part it is divided into a couple of basic ways. This isn’t to say there aren’t others, but we want to focus on the basics here to keep you from getting stuck in something you don’t love, or getting something stuck in you!

First one up is the sensual strap-on Femdom. While still very controlling, she approaches things a little slower, more sensually if you will. Now this version of sensual doesn’t mean she’s a pushover or that you won’t feel a little pain, in the hurts so good kind of way, but it does mean she will take her time with you, convincing slowly and steadily, letting you relax a little bit. If this is what you think you need, then make sure you are aware of the kind of lady you are meeting. A strict strap-on Femdom will treat you quite differently, I can assure you! While not at all the cruel task master many expect she is anything but gentle when it comes to your strap-on session. Want to be taken hard and fast with a strap-on? Femdoms who are strict and hardcore are the ones for you then. Of course, even a strict Mistress cares about your well-being and enjoyment, they just also care about what entertains them. If you are lucky that isn’t the side that wins out!

Are You Experienced? Does it matter?

The next thing you really need to know about yourself is a two part one and it will be the final step in your choice. Are you experienced with a strap-on? This means either in trying things out on yourself or through the trial and error process I mentioned earlier with other Mistresses. Or are you a complete novice to the whole strap-on Femdom fetish? Maybe you saw a hot video and decided that you would love to give the whole strap-on thing a whirl. Or maybe you had some kind of encounter that got you hot and excited and interested in trying it out. Whatever happened, if you have never had any kind of actual strap-on play then you are certainly a strap-on virgin and need to take things slow.

This is part two. Does it matter if you are experienced or not? Well yes! And also no. It depends really. You see, it does not matter a bit to your strap-on Femdom if you have ever engaged in a session like this before or not. In fact, she’s happy to teach you the ins and outs of strap-on play! However, if you are a novice, it does matter in the choice you make of Mistress. You might want to think long and hard before taking on the long and hard strap-on of a strict Femdom. She might be a bit much for you the first time out. It’s your choice of course and we’d love to have to come see us any time, whether you want strict or sensual, we have the Mistress to guide you in your strap-on Femdom sessions.

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