Sharing Your Strap-On Fantasies With Your Partner

It can be difficult sharing your strap-on fantasies with a partner.  I’ve been married to the same woman for many years, we know everything about one another. If you asked anyone who knows us they’d think we were the perfect couple. And in lots of ways we are. I’m a very successful business man and she works as well, we have a great family, dog, nice house, you know a perfect Christmas card life.

We have everything anyone could want. Well anyone but me. I still want one more thing, something she knows nothing about, something I need to tell her, but how?

It started a few years ago. We were in kind of a rut sexually, not that anything was really wrong but I was bored. That sounds like I’m a total asshole I know, but hey it’s true. So I thought, well I don’t want to cheat on her or have to deal with some woman who starts thinking I’m going to leave my family for her, which I wouldn’t, so I looked for a professional.

I had planned to just find a hooker, get laid and that would be it. But a buddy of mine told me about his Mistress. I thought that meant the thing I didn’t want, a woman on the side, but he explained to me that no, his Mistress was a Dominatrix. A FemDom Mistress who he called or saw at least once a week.

He said she had helped him to explore things he didn’t even know he wanted. The darker side of his desires, so to speak. Well that sounded good to me, so I made a few calls and eventually hooked up with this gorgeous red-head who was taller than me when she put on her high heeled boots and happy to remind me who was in charge.

Meeting a Mistress

It was heaven. I never felt guilty because she was in control. She told me to show up and I did. She told me to take off my clothes and I did. It wasn’t an affair, even when we had sex it was her allowing me to touch her, so I never felt like I was doing anything wrong.

Our sessions got closer and closer to what really turned me on, something I only ever thought about just as I was about to cum alone in the bathroom stroking my cock. She said, “You can share your strap-on fantasies with me, it’s okay. I know you want to be fucked with a strap on” and I almost came when she said it!

I don’t want another man. No way! I just want a gorgeous woman, preferably my wife, to strap it on and have her way with me. The thing is, it’s a fantasy only because I just knew my wife would never even consider such a thing. She’s not aggressive in bed and I doubt she’d know what a strap on was if she tripped over one.

But my Mistress, she knew all about it, the thing is she told me she wasn’t going to do it, because it wasn’t what I really wanted and she was never one to be second choice. She said, “I know you want to share your strap-on fantasies with your wife, not me.” I argued but I had already admitted to her that my wife was the one I wanted to share the strap on experience with for the first time.

Sharing My Strap-on Fantasies

So now here I am, preparing to tell my wife about my fantasy. I’m armed with props and with some tips from my beautiful Mistress who I have to say, whether talking to me on the phone or taking me past my normal limits in bed is always engaging and supportive.

She encourages me to share my fantasies, but I’m worried. I don’t know if my wife will like it or if she will balk at the idea entirely and maybe even look at me with disgust.

My Mistress says that if I just start out by being romantic, though not so much so that I seem entirely different than normal, get close to her and cuddle a little, I can easily bring up the talk of fantasies. We all have them and they are normal. My wife loves me, so of course she’s going to listen.

My Mistress says that I should just tell her the truth, that I have had some fantasies for awhile that I never talked with her about because I was afraid she wouldn’t like them, but that I want us to share everything and feel like it’s time. She said there is no reason to start out with the fact that I’ve seen a Mistress, that will just distract my wife from what I really want her to know.

So, I’m going to just be honest and tell her my fantasy about a strap on. I’ll ask her if she has any fantasies that she doesn’t share with me and promise to be very open minded no matter what they are. This might be hard because I’m so so certain she doesn’t, but my Mistress warned me not to be shocked because women like all kinds of things.

Honesty and sharing are important, so I’m just going to tell her and hope, I’m thinking that she’ll accept it even if she doesn’t like it. And worst case scenario, my Mistress promised to use her strap on with me, if I tell my wife and she refuses. So, either way, I’m looking forward to a fantasy fulfilled.