Preparing for Your First Time Strap On Experience
Properly preparing for your first time strap on experience is important. You’ve decided that you want to try having your Mistress use a strap on with you or more appropriately on you. You’ve thought about it, talked with her about it and now you are fairly certain that you are ready to experience being fucked by your Mistress with a strap on.
The only problem is, that no matter how much you want it, you aren’t sure how to prepare for it. There are so many ideas and worries running through your head that you aren’t even truly able to enjoy the sweet anticipation of being taken by your beautiful Mistress.
You need some tips on how to prepare for your first strap-on session and that’s what I’m here to give you. A few pointers about your first strap on experience and ways to make it the most pleasurable for you and for your Mistress.
1. Prepare physically
This means a few days to a week before your first time strap on session start getting yourself ready. Your Mistress will supply you with, or instruct you to get a variety of sizes of butt plugs or dildos. None of these will be especially large, not compared to her strap-on anyway, but they will feel big to you.
Though I know if you have already been thinking about this, that you know you like it because you’ve tried various butt plugs and things. So, this should be simple for you. Use lots of lube and take your time. Wear each one and feel it stretching you out. Then move on to the larger size. This is important unless you want it to hurt even more than it inevitably will.
You’ll also need to do some other preparations physically, like don’t eat any solid food for about 2 days before and set up an internal flush so that you are all cleaned up and out for your Mistress. No one wants a problem with that and of course you’ll need to shave all that hair from between the cheeks and around the balls.
Your Mistress will need to see and reach all your parts and we don’t want any mess. This will help you to enjoy yourself as well. And of course bring lots of lube, lots and lots of lube.
2. Prepare Mentally
This is when you relax and think about it. Allow yourself to remember why you wanted to do this in the first place. Being fucked with a strap-on is what you want, it turns you on and gets you hard. You truly want to have this happen and it was your idea. Your Mistress may have mentioned it, but you got obsessed. You started wanting it more than you wanted anything, needing it and aching for it.
You are here preparing for your first session because of your own choices. You don’t have someone coercing you to do it, your Mistress didn’t coerce you, she simply suggested and maybe even let you look at or touch her strap on, but you are the one who decided this is what you want.
You should spend time thinking about and imagining the moment. You love the thought of being fucked by your Mistress, so watch videos, lay back and imagine it happening. While you are trying out those butt plugs and doing all the physical preparations keep your mind focused on what you are preparing for.
They say that anticipation is sweet and naughty and you’ll ache even more for it when you have to wait. See this as a waiting time for you, where all you can do is anticipate how amazing it will feel when you are being taken by your Mistress.
First Time Strap On Experience: You Want This Bad
3. Prepare Emotionally
Finally you want to get your emotions in order and start preparing for how you are going to react emotionally to being fucked. Will you worry that you’re gay now? Will it make you cry or scream?
You know you are worrying about these things and really all you need to know is that just like anything else you love in a fetish you are simply turned on my being used by your Mistress with her strap on. It doesn’t have to mean anything more or less than that. It means only that you are turned on and want to try it.
This is what you’ve been waiting for remember. The sweet anticipation of getting what you’ve been waiting for from your Mistress. You won’t regret it. After all this isn’t the first time for her and you know how good it’s going to feel and while you worry about becoming addicted to it, as you’ve heard can happen…I can promise you there are worse addictions to have. So relax and enjoy it!