Preparing For Your First Strap On Session

You’ve been thinking about it for what seems like ages, imagining actually admitting to how much you want and need to be taken by your Mistress with her strap on. Of course no one knows that but you. She has guessed a few times, put you keep insisting that it just doesn’t interest you at all. Of course it does, but admitting that is just almost too much for you. However, you know the time has come and you need to prepare yourself for the session.

Preparing for Your First Strap On: Study Up

Find out all you can about strap on sex and how it works. Ask your Phone Sex Mistress questions, read erotica and essays, learn all you can so you can be certain to do everything right. Remember this is still your Mistress and it is your duty to make sure she enjoys this just as much, if not more, than you do. It’s a lot of work for her to prepare you and choose the perfect sizes and things, so you need to do all you can to show how much you appreciate it.

The more you know the better you’ll be able to prepare in the next two ways, I‘m going to tell you about. If you know what is going to happen, how the session will progress or at least have watched some videos of other submissive men being fucked by their Mistresses, you will be ready to take that strap on and really enjoy it.

Face The Fact, You Want This Bad!

Emotionally, it is now time to face the fact that you are excited by the thought of being fucked. Oh yes, this is an emotional moment and part of your preparation. No Mistress wants to get ready to use her strap on with you, only to find that you are having an emotional crisis about whether or not this makes you gay. So, lets put that to rest right now. Because it does. It doesn’t. It might. It’s not the act that would make you gay, it’s the emotion and sometimes all being fucked with a strap on by your Mistress means is that you want to be submissive.

You see, admitting that you need and want a Mistress to use a strap on dildo on you, is also admitting that you need to submit completely. You will give yourself to her all the way and ask her for what you truly desire, to be fucked. This is an emotional moment, prepare yourself by being honest and facing the fact you want it. This doesn’t mean you are gay or want an actual man fucking you, it means you want to submit totally to your Mistress and backing out after telling her you want to do it, is just not acceptable behavior. So get real with yourself, focus, and then let her know you are ready to take that step. You’ll love it and she will love having you submit to her totally.

Your Body Needs to Prepare As Much As Your Mind

You also must prepare physically for your first strap on session. This is a little more time consuming and may or may not be something your Mistress wishes to guide you in. Before assuming always ask her first and then go on about the business of preparing. First of all, get clean. Enough said. Clean is always better and more fun for everyone. Next, you need to practice relaxing. Find out what size dildo your Mistress has as a strap on and start practicing, slowly.

Your Strap-on FemDomme Mistress may want to practice with you, but you will probably need to do some on your own, especially if this is your very first session with a strap on and your ass hasn’t had much play! Start out with small and gradually get larger. Maybe not quite as big as your Mistress will use, since she will want to be the first to go that deep with you, but you will need to get opened up a bit.

Figure out which lube works best for you and learn to relax those muscles so you will be able to fully enjoy the session without tensing up and causing yourself unnecessary pain or discomfort. Keep in mind that no Mistress wants to feel like she has to hold back entirely and can’t be expected to, so don’t try to set any limits. She will fuck you as she thinks is best and enjoy the session. If you do everything right, you will enjoy it too!