How to Prepare for Strap-On Training

by Ms. Claire of www.straponfemdommes.com

So you think you’re ready to be someone’s bend-over boyfriend…but you have no idea where you should start when it comes time to prepare for strap-on training? I’ll give you a hint: NOT with that big fat cucumber in the vegetable drawer, noooo. There are better ways to prepare yourself to take a little pegging than to stuff yourself beyond capacity with whatever you have lying around – at least to start with.

After all, the goal is to enjoy your anal exploration and find yourself enjoying the hell out of a good strap-on session! Let’s go over a few basics of strap-on training to give you the best possible introduction to prepare for strap-on training when submitting to a woman in charge of a strap-on dildo.

1. NO SUCH THING AS TOO MUCH LUBE

This is not something to skimp on – apply generously and frequently for all anal activity! I don’t need to list the assorted brands out there, everyone has their own favorite, just be sure to get yourself something reputable and plentiful for the job.

Your adventurous ass deserves plenty of lube as you prepare for strap-on training!

2. PREPARE FOR STRAP-ON TRAINING: QUICK ANATOMY LESSON

The fancy term for your asshole is the external anal sphincter. You have another ring of muscle, the internal anal sphincter, a few inches up inside your butt. You need to open that up in order to insert anything past that point, or else you will experience unnecessary discomfort.

You do this by bearing down, and then that strap-on or whatever toy you’re using will glide right in. Such a simple lesson – make sure you remember it!

3. PREPARE FOR STRAP-ON TRAINING WITH BUTT PLUGS

If you don’t get any kind of femdom ass play on a regular basis, you should consider getting a small butt plug or a set of butt plugs for increasing your capacity, tolerance and ultimately pleasure. Butt plug training will get you used to the feeling of fullness, but without the friction of any in-and-out motion.

Make sure it has a really skinny ‘neck’ at the base of the plug so it will stay in without constant attention, and many of us ladies recommend stainless steel for the material. You might find some useful training in our phone sex assignment store if you’d like a more interactive or detailed approach.

4. WHEN IT COMES TO STRAP-ON TRAINING, SIZE MATTERS

When it comes to your introduction to taking a strap-on, smaller is the way to go. A good strap-on mistress will let you pick the size, and it may sound lame to pick the six-incher, but your virgin ass will think it’s gigantic! So don’t be a show-off, it’s not like you’re going to be bragging to anyone but your phone sex mistress-confidante.

Just let yourself build up to larger apparatus with hot-n-nasty names like Vixen Mustang or Black Thunder. You’ll get to those eventually, after your ass has learned how to take a good dicking from the less spectacular sizes.

5. POSITIONED FOR SUCCESS

Ah, the joys of a strap-on dildo v. an actual cock! For one thing, not all positions are created equal, so expect a lot of maneuvering to get things right at first. The best position for beginner strap-on play is to take it from behind.

Second best, but at the same time not terribly submissive, is you mounted on top. As for taking it missionary style, which is the stuff of most pegging fantasy phone sex, it’s a little trickier but worth the effort to prepare for strap-on training missionary style! It helps if you scoot your naughty bottom to the edge of the bed to improve access for your strap-on training mistress.

6. TRY EVERYTHING TWICE

As with all things sexual, the first time you are usually so stuck in your own head with thoughts like “am I really doing this? does strap-on sex make me gay? is this going to hurt? what if…”.

So you really need to write off the first time as a bit strange and give it a second whirl to figure out whether or not getting done with a girl-cock is something you want to keep doing. To be real – if you already like “butt stuff”, then you’re probably going to make a great bend-over boyfriend!

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