Don’t Be Afraid Of Your Strap On Fantasies

Do you have strap on fantasies? Everyone has fantasies. Most people have quite a few, and many have at least one that they’ll never share with anyone else. It’s altogether sad that these people feel that they must hide their desires from the world. We don’t want anyone to have to hide their fantasies out of fear of being misunderstood or, even worse, out of shame!

Here at Strap On Femdommes, we love hearing about men’s fantasies, particularly their fantasies that involve strap on and anal play. You need never be afraid of speaking to any of us about those desires of yours. We understand, and we don’t think you have any reason to feel guilty or ashamed for craving these things.

We want to help you become comfortable with your strap on fantasies. That’s why we’ve developed this little guide to help you overcome any fears you may have about your desire to experience strap on play.

There’s Nothing Wrong With Having a Strap On Femdom

Many men are deeply ashamed of these kinds of desires. They’re afraid of sharing their strap on fantasies with their partners. Some men are even afraid to admit to themselves that they have these fantasies.

A common fear that men have is that liking strap on play might make them gay. That’s a misconception that’s easily cast aside with a little logic, though. Are you a man who remains attracted to women, regardless of whether or not a strap on is involved? If the answer is “yes,” you are most assuredly not gay, no matter how many times your strap on Mistress fucks your ass with her favorite toy!

Another fear that men have when it comes to their strap on fantasies is the fear that it somehow makes them less of a man to want to be fucked in the ass. This, too, is completely untrue. Being the penetratee instead of the penetrator does not diminish your masculinity in any way. As a matter of fact, being strong enough and brave enough to admit to your secret desires actually makes you more of a man. Women love men who are confident in themselves, and if you’re comfortable with yourself and your sexuality, you’ll be the kind of man women flock to, often with strap ons in hand!

Other Reasons To Relish In Your Strap On Fantasies

Another reason that men have for being afraid of their strap on fantasies is the fear of physical pain. This is actually a more legitimate fear than the others mentioned before. Improperly done anal play can be quite painful. But that’s why experienced strap on Femdommes know to go slowly, take their time, and fully train a man’s ass before just trying to jam something the size of a large cock into it!

It’s completely untrue that anal always has to hurt. If both parties are relaxed and moving at a leisurely pace, it can feel amazingly good. Or, if it does hurt, strap on play hurts so good!

The last thing a man may be afraid of when it comes to admitting his strap on fantasies is the fear that he may not be understood. It’s true that some women my not understand these kinds of fantasies. But a Femdom Mistress understands them, quite possibly better than you understand them yourself. A Mistress would never ridicule you for this desire…unless, of course, you’re interested in strap on humiliation!

We don’t believe that anyone should have to hide who they are or what they enjoy out of fear! Everyone is entitled to a safe environment in which to explore their fantasies, be it through strap on phone sex, sessions with professional Dommes, or at home alone with their partners.

We hope that this little guide has helped ease your mind somewhat about any fears you might have had about your secret strap on fantasies. We also hope that you’ll be willing to take the next step into trying out these fantasies and finding out once and for all if anal play is really for you. Many men find that strap on play is very arousing and quite satisfying. It is our hope that you will join the ranks of those men and discover orgasms unlike any you have experienced before.