Is Anal Sex for You?

I’ve been fascinated with anal sex ever since I watched Back Door Babes that time at my friend’s house all those years ago. In fact, that’s become my favorite type of porn to watch. There’s just something about anal sex that excites me far more than any other sexual act. Watching those women take those big cocks in their asses is such a turn-on. But why is it such a turn-on for me? That’s something I’d been trying to figure out for years and then all of the sudden one day, it hit me.

I can tell you exactly why it is such a turn-on for me. Simply put: Anal Sex = Taboo and Taboo = Exciting. Pussies were designed to be fucked; asses weren’t. That’s precisely why I find anal sex so exciting.

I Want to Fuck You in the Ass

I’d say those words to each of my girlfriends over the years as we got more comfortable with each other. Most of the girls I dated were sexualy adventurous and didn’t mind trying most things, at least once. The difference between only trying anal sex once and learning to enjoy anal sex, I found out the hard way, is the amount of time you take preparing yourself for the experience. Anal sex is not something to just suddenly decide you want to do and then do it.

Through trial and error I learned that first-time anal sex should be planned well ahead of time. The number one reason is so you can ensure cleanliness. The purpose of the anal tract is to excrete bacteria and other potentially harmful substances that your body cannot absorb. It is imperative to make sure the bowels are empty and the area is clean to minimize the risk of spreading harmful bacteria to your partner. There are a number of products on the market designed for this purpose. Rubber gloves and condoms are a must!

I Want You to Fuck me in the Ass

For years I was fascinated by having anal sex with women and actually did get to enjoy a good bit of that, but I had a dirty little secret that excited me even more than that. My dirty little secret was that I enjoyed anal sex myself. Every time I had the chance to masturbate, I’d grab the dildo I kept hidden in the bottom of an old toolbox in the back of a cabinet in the garage. The dildo had a suction cup base and I’d just attach it to whatever worked the best at the time: the shower wall, the toilet lid, a stool, wherever I could get it to stay long enough for me to ride it.

Oh, how I loved to ride my dildo! Of course, I didn’t just start out doing that. I worked my way up to it. My advice to you, if you are wondering about trying anal play during masturbation, is to start out slowly, just like I did.

Deciding if Anal Sex is for You

I started out by experimenting with a finger. One day when I was masturbating and watching anal porn, I decided to slip a lubed finger inside just to see what it felt like. It felt oh-so-good! The next time I masturbated, I slipped two fingers inside and moved them slowly in and out. Before my next masturbation session, I made a trip to the adult bookstore and bought one of those slimline waterproof dildos that vibrate.

OMG, was I amazed at how much I enjoyed that vibration. At that point, I enjoyed just leaving the dildo in place while I masturbated, almost like a butt plug. I tried moving them in and out, but it just didn’t feel right.

Over time, I started slding the dildo in and out slowly until one day in the heat of the moment, I was so excited I started going really fast and all it took was a minute or two of that kind of action and I exploded in orgasm. I’ve worked my way up in dildo sizes since then, thanks to my Strap-on Mistress, as I like to call her.

Oh yeah, that! I started seeing a FemDom Mistress a few months ago and I admitted my dirty little secret to her. She immediately went over to the wall and took down a strapon harness then walked over to an assortment of dildos. “Let. Me. See.”, she said. “Which one shall I use today?”

She used one that was a little bigger than I had been used to but I loved it! She told me she would be working me up to her largest dildo, one that intimidated me to even look at! It excited me more, though!

Anal Play is not for Everyone

As I said, I absolutely love anal and strap-on play, though it certainly isn’t for everyone. I recommend trying it at least once as long as you properly prepare for it.